There are many ways that I choose to engage with play partners. These are not exclusive options, most of my sessions include more than one of these selections.

My primary interests are (but not limited to)…

• Shibari/ Rope Bondage Session - I love getting to be someone’s first rope bondage experience provider and I also love getting to tie with experienced players. I’ve been learning and practicing Shibari since 2003 and with more intense learning and practice since 2018. The best compliment I’ve gotten is that I’m “really good at meeting people where they are.” Though I do identify as a pervert and a sadist, I am fluent in many ways of tying and modes of interaction.

• Shibari/ Rope Bondage Lessons - I love to Teach. My interest in Shibari is deep and wide and I love sharing my experience and skills with others. From the very start, I like to infuse every lesson with a shared focus on the “way” to tie, cleanliness, clarity, accuracy, attention to detail, rope handling, body handling, and safety awareness. My preference is to work with students on a regular on-going basis but I am open to one off lessons as well.

• Impact Play - Many people think that impact is easy, just pick something up and hit someone with it. Ok, that is impact, but not a skillful approach. I love impact specifically because it has an impact on me and the person I’m playing with. I want that to be a positive experience regardless of how deep and intense it may get, exploring sensation, pain and pleasure. I teach a multi-class series of impact play called Bonk! in which I get to be an extremely nerdy and thoroughly thorough professor of the many fine points to consider while engaging in this ancient practice.

• Creative Kinky Photoshoots - Let’s get weird and document it. Any scene can be documented in the process. It is a particular joy of mine to get to craft a concept with collaborators and up the production value with good lighting, a clear lens and practiced editing on the back end. I welcome people who just want to be sexy for their own joy as well as SWers who sell their images and videos through paywall sites. I’m also available for hire to work on other people’s shoots contributing rope/BDSM aesthetics and expertise.

• BDSM/ Conceptual Scenes - Is it your birthday? Been dreaming of a special experience that you haven’t gotten to embody elsewhere? I love getting to play dream maker. It’s a special thing to be able to ask for what you want and have someone work to make it so. I want to hear your depraved fantasy and give you the space to see it through.